Stephanie M. Kriesberg, PsyD, has practiced clinical psychology for twenty-five years. A graduate of the Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology of Yeshiva University, she is trained in psychodynamic psychotherapy, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). In addition, she is trained in the practice of clinical hypnosis. Kriesberg is on the board of the New England Society of Clinical Hypnosis.
"Many people navigate adulthood with psychological scars imprinted
by their parents. Adult daughters of narcissistic mothers are
particularly susceptible to negative feelings about themselves and
shame surrounding their relationships with their mothers. Clinical
psychologist Kriesberg describes types of narcissism and explains
how the narcissists' use of gaslighting and a lack of empathy often
leave their daughters feeling alone. They may also have a hard time
setting boundaries and tend to live their lives for others.
Kriesberg introduces readers to various psychological therapies and
exercises designed to help them discover who they are and what they
want out of life. Readers are directed to websites where they can
access and practice various exercises to develop coping skills. As
a result, readers will be able to develop self-confidence and trust
in their inner voice. VERDICT: While aimed at daughters of
narcissistic mothers, Kriesberg's practical advice is applicable to
anyone dealing with challenging parents, not just narcissists.
Readers who have already engaged in self-exploration may not learn
as much, but this primer will serve as an excellent entry for those
beginning to deal with the aftermath of growing up with a
narcissistic mother."
--Library Journal-- "Library Journal"
"An intricate and eye-opening dive into maternal narcissism.
Through a series of compelling vignettes and applied exercises,
Kriesberg provides the perfect road map for understanding,
navigating, and overcoming the impacts of being raised by a
narcissistic mother. Highly recommend!"
--Jill A. Stoddard, PhD, author of Be Mighty and The Big Book of
ACT Metaphors--Jill A. Stoddard, PhD
"Filled with dozens of relatable stories and curative coping tools,
Kriesberg's guide is like having a compassionate therapist in your
pocket who shows you how to navigate the conflicting feelings of
dealing with a self-centered mother so you can confidently set
boundaries, honor your own needs, and put yourself back in the
center of your own life."
--Courtney Armstrong, LPC, author of Rethinking Trauma
Treatment--Courtney Armstrong, LPC
"Stephanie has neatly captured the multitude of ways in which
having a narcissistic parent can constrain your own development and
cause turmoil in family functioning whilst also acknowledging the
different forms of narcissism, each with their unique behavioral
repertoires. Narcissists resist change; however, this is an
excellent resource for developing skills for dealing with your
narcissistic mother--for you and your (future) family."
--Claire M. Hart, PhD, narcissism researcher and associate
professor of psychology at the University of Southampton,
UK--Claire M. Hart, PhD,
"Stephanie Kriesberg has written a reassuring and easy-to-read book
about what it's like to grow up with a mother who is raising you to
meet her own needs and is generally incapable of empathy. Kriesberg
describes the causes of narcissism in vivid prose. Replete with
real-life examples, exercises, and thoughtful journaling questions,
I will be sending clients and friends to this book again and
again."
--Jonice Webb, PhD, psychologist, and author of Running On Empty
and Running On Empty No More--Jonice Webb, PhD,
"Stephanie Kriesberg's book fills an important need for women
trying to understand and heal from the myriad issues resulting from
being raised by a narcissistic mother. Kriesberg skillfully weaves
together a number of treatment modalities to provide practical
strategies for coping and recovery. This is a beautifully written
and very accessible self-help book. I will definitely recommend it
to my clients who come from this kind of background."
--Lorna McKenzie-Pollock, LICSW, director of education for the New
England Society of Clinical Hypnosis; with a private practice in
Brookline, MA--Lorna McKenzie-Pollock, LICSW
"This is a hands-on, straight-to-the-point, useful guide for
processing challenging residual experiences of mothers exposing a
narcissistic personality. Facing the range from distant ignorance
to intrusive preoccupation--all in the service of the mother's own
self-interest--has a major impact on a daughter's continuing
internal sense of self. The author connects close descriptions of
internal struggle with systematic and thoughtful strategies for
daughters' healing and growth."
--Elsa Ronningstam, PhD, associate professor (PT) at Harvard
Medical School, and clinical psychologist at McLean Hospital--Elsa
Ronningstam, PhD
"Women struggling with the emotional impoverishment and instability
of life with a narcissistic mother will find themselves on
long-sought solid ground with Stephanie Kriesberg's Adult Daughters
of Narcissistic Mothers. Straightforward, reassuring, and
interactive, this welcome guide provides an admirable balance of
relatable examples, compassionate validation, and proven strategies
for healing."
--Julie L. Hall, founder of The Narcissist Family Files, and author
of The Narcissist in Your Life--Julie L. Hall
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