Introduction: Making a Start 1
PART I Willingness
1 Opening with a "Yes" 15
2 Facing Our Fears 31
PART II Attentiveness
3 Surveying the Situation 49
4 Listening to the Inner Self 65
5 Noticing God's Nudges 81
6 The Habit of Attentiveness 95
PART III Responsiveness
7 Testing Our Decisions 115
8 Step by Step 131
9 When We Have to Wait 147
10 The Harvest of Discernment 161
Epilogue: A Letter for Decision Makers 175
Guide for Groups: A Six-Session Course of Study and Practice
178
Suggestions for Further Reading 192
Acknowledgments 195
Index of Exercises 196
Nancy L. Bieber is a spiritual director, psychologist and teacher
with thirty years of experience in working with individuals and
groups in transition and change. She is author of Decision Making
and Spiritual Discernment: The Sacred Art of Finding Your Way
(SkyLight Paths). A core leader with Oasis Ministries for Spiritual
Development, she leads spiritual formation retreats and workshops
around the country. She also teaches at Lancaster Theological
Seminary.
Nancy L. Bieber is available to speak on the following topics:
The Sacred Art of Finding Your Way: Decisions and Discernment
Contemplative Practices for Daily Life
The Ancient Gift of Spiritual Direction. What Difference Does It
Make?
Strengthening Spiritual Life in Community
Remembering Who You Are: The Prayer Pause
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