Steph Auteri is a writer and editor who has written about women's health and sexuality for The Atlantic, the Washington Post, VICE, Pacific Standard, Salon, Undark and other publications.
A Dirty Word is a brilliant combination of incredibly relatable
personal detail and scientific accuracy. Auteri captures the
realities of the balancing act of being a sex writer and being
human. She provides the reader with striking contemporary insight
into the implications of our attitudes around women's sexuality. It
is a must-read. --Kristen Mark, PhD, Associate Professor, Sex and
Relationship Researcher, Director of Sexual Health Promotion Lab,
University of Kentucky-- "Reviews"
A bold, brave, and ballsy look at the secret life of a sex writer
post-Carrie Bradshaw. --Susan Shapiro, bestselling author of
Unhooked, Five Men Who Broke My Heart, and The Byline Bible--
"Reviews"
A must-read for anyone who has experienced sexual trauma and wants
a no-holds-barred account of what recovery might look like. Steph
isn't afraid to lay it bare. -Tracey Cox, bestselling sex and
relationships author-- "Reviews"
Brave, bold, and utterly unique! A first-rate sex writer, Steph
combines personal experience with professional expertise to create
a work that is at once illuminating and inspiring --Ian Kerner, PhD
LMFT, author of She Comes First-- "Reviews"
In A Dirty Word Steph Auteri writes intimately and painfully about
the gap between the sex positive, aspirational adventures she was
covering as a professional sex writer and her private struggle to
feel desire for and pleasure from partnered sex. As we culturally
move past the glamour of sex positivity, Auteri is guiding us into
a deeply needed unvarnished sexual realism. --Audacia Ray, social
justice advocate and the author of Naked on the Internet--
"Reviews"
In A Dirty Word, Steph Auteri applies the power of personal
experience to an important larger conversation about sex, female
sexuality and desire. Her story and the earnest curiosity she
brings to the page work together to create an open-minded,
open-hearted discussion that women of all ages, who have ever
wondered if they're normal in bed, will appreciate and learn from.
Yay for truth telling! --Lisa Romeo, author of Starting with
Goodbye: A Daughter's Memoir of Love after Loss-- "Reviews"
Steph Auteri is a remarkable writer -- wise, funny, and self-aware.
A Dirty Word is an honest, smart analysis of the complicated dance
women do with their own desire, especially in this culture. Most
importantly, though, it is deeply personal. I love the way she
writes about sex and marriage, fully seeing all of it, giving the
rest of us permission to be ourselves. Treat yourself to this
excellent read. --Rebecca Barry, author of Later at the Bar and
Recipes for a Beautiful Life-- "Reviews"
This book is for any woman who wants to reclaim her self and her
sexuality. Stephanie's personal journey is revealing and relatable.
Her honesty, candor, humor and hope will provide inspiration to
many. ---Jamye Waxman, sex therapist, author, and educator--
"Reviews"
What a read! Can a young woman who feels broken by her date-raping
boyfriend fix herself by writing about sex? A Dirty Word explores
what Steph Auteri learns about herself and her own sexuality, the
dichotomy between her public and private self, and the many ways
that other people view and experience sex. It's a memoir plus so
much more. -Joan Price, author of The Ultimate Guide to Sex after
50-- "Reviews"
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