Foreword Sue Johnson 1. Introduction: Who is this Book For? 2. What Happened to Us? Three Cycles of Relationship Distress 3. Attachment Bonds: The Best Chance of Survival 4. My Partner and Me: What Influenced Who We Are and How We Are in Close Relationships? 5. Emotions: How to Make Sense of Them 6. More About Emotions: What Are We both Feeling? 7. More Difficult Emotions: Contempt, Hurt, Shame, Guilt and Jealousy 8. The Road to Security is Paved with Good Intentions 9. Rebuilding Our Bond 10. Relationship Injury: How Can We Repair the Damage? 11. Stories of Change 12. Maintaining Intimacy and Revitalizing your Sex Life 13. Looking Ahead: Anticipating Life Transitions
Veronica Kallos-Lilly, PhD, is a Registered Psychologist and
Co-Founder and Director of the Vancouver & Family Institute and the
Vancouver Centre for EFT Training in British Columbia, Canada. She
is also a certified EFT supervisor and trainer.
Jennifer Fitzgerald, PhD, is a Clinical Psychologist in private
practice and Senior Lecturer at the University of Queensland in
Brisbane, Australia. She is also a certified EFT supervisor and
trainer.
“The perspectives and exercises offered here are right on target;
they arise from a clear understanding of the bonds of love and how
these bonds work in adult relationships… We hope that this book
will help you do just that – shape your precious relationship into
a more satisfying and lasting bond.” - Dr. Sue Johnson, From the
Foreword
"This book offers ’power tools’ for couples who want to look deeply
at themselves and their relationship. The authors go a lot deeper
than routine techniques of marital communication--they get to the
heart of the matter. And so will you if you read, digest, and
practice what this books offers."-- William J. Doherty, PhD,
Professor of Family Social Science at the University of Minnesota,
USA and Author of Take Back Your Marriage
"At last a workbook for couples that faithfully mirrors the process
of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). It's like having 2 master EFT
therapists come home with you during the week to support and guide
you to maintain the progress you make in therapy sessions and
improve your relationship more quickly. In-depth explanations and
reflective exercises will help you to explore your emotions,
articulate them better for yourself, and express them to your
partner. I will recommend this workbook to every one of the couples
in my practice!" -- Marlene Best, PhD, Clinical Professor in
Clinical Psychology, University of Ottawa, Canada; Certified EFT
Therapist, Supervisor & Trainer "This workbook, based on
Emotionally Focused Therapy, includes excellent exercises that
focus on helping couples create positive communication patterns in
place of the destructive ones that negatively affect their
relationships. Drawing on extensive research and clinical
experience, this book will help couples strengthen their trust in
one another as well as heal past hurts. I recommend it for use in
marriage enrichment groups, as well as by individual couples."
--Patricia Noller PhD, Emeritus Professor, School of Psychology,
University of Queensland, Australia
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