Acknowledgments xv
Foreword xvii
Preface xxv
Introduction 1Principles 3
Notes 13
Part One: Introducing the Trustscape 15 Chapter 1 Navigation Works Better When You Have a Destination in Mind 17Beyond the Thought Experiment 20
Questions for Reflection 22
Note 22
Chapter 2 The Trustscape 23Introducing Your Trustscape 25
A Dynamic Tableau 26
A Closing Exercise 27
Note 28
Chapter 3 Some Key Terms 29 Chapter 4 Know Your Narratives 33Depends Where You're Sitting 35
A Thirst for Education 36
Note 39
Part Two: The Players 41 Chapter 5 The Trust 43A Short Description of a Long History 44
A Closing Exercise 47
Notes 50
Chapter 6 The Trustee 51The Trustee 52
Choices 55
Chapter 7 Beneficiaries and Trust Creators 59Beneficiaries 62
Trust Creators 66
Notes 75
Chapter 8 The Trust Protector and the Trust Adviser 77Trust Advisers 78
Trust Protectors 79
Choices 81
Part Three: Building Great Relationships 85 Chapter 9 Considerations Prior to Accepting Appointment as Trustee 87So-You've Been Asked to Serve as Trustee 89
Now for Some Homework 89
If You are New to the Trustscape 90
Understanding the Technical Side 91
Almost There 93
A Final Step 94
Note 95
Chapter 10 Creating Preambles 97Preambles and Purpose 98
"But My Trust Was Drafted 20 Years Ago!" 100
Themes and Schemes 101
Preambles Created by Trustees and Beneficiaries 102
Revisit the Preamble 103
As You Begin to Create Your Preamble 104
Note 105
Chapter 11 Action Steps Prior to the First Trustee-Beneficiary Meeting 107If You are a Trustee 108
If You are a Beneficiary 110
Note 113
Chapter is Positive Events, Supportive Responses 115Matching Mind-set to Task 116
Supportive Responses to Positive Events 119
Play to Your Strengths 121
Notes 122
Chapter 13 Trustee-Beneficiary Meetings 123Premeeting Checklists 124
If This is the First Meeting 126
A Sampling of Agenda Items 128
An "Appreciative" Exercise 130
Note 131
Chapter 14 Requests for Distribution 133"This Worked because I Knew Susan . . ." 135
The Request Process 137
Analysis of a Request 139
About Enhancement 142
Note 143
Chapter 15 Working with Addictions 145 Chapter 16 Trusts and Marriage 153Prenuptials 154
Within Marriage 157
Second Marriages and Beyond 161
Notes 163
Chapter 17 Transitions 165Solomon's Ring 165
This Too Shall Pass 166
Changing the Trust 167
Changing the Players 169
Coming to an End 171
Note 173
Part Four: A Comprehensive Model for a Humane Trustscape 175 Chapter 18 A Promise and a Challenge for Trust Creators 177A Trust Creator's Challenge 178
First, an Exercise for Trust Creators 179
Note 180
Chapter 19 The Highest Duty of the Trustee and the Corresponding Responsibility of the Beneficiary 181I Wrote These Great Docs, but My Clients Won't Sign . . . 183
The Highest Duty of the Trustee and the Corresponding Responsibility of the Beneficiary 184
Support for the Trustee 186
Support for the Beneficiary 188
Chapter 20 The Distribution Committee and the Office of the Beneficiary 191Distribution Committee 192
The Office of the Beneficiary 195
Conclusion 201
Chapter 21 The Trustee and the Trust Protector Revisited 203Which Cap's on Top? 205
A Different Approach 206
Reconsidering the Institutional Trustee 209
Note 211
Appendices 213 Appendix 1 Sample Legacy Letter 215 Appendix 2 Sample Language Regarding Addiction 223 Appendix 3 The Distribution Committee 235The Core Concept 236
Committee Members 237
Drafting Points 238
Appendix 4 Private Trust Companies 243Definitions 243
PTCs versus Individual Trustees 244
Governance 246
Best Practices 248
Appendix 5 Family Trust Review 253Purpose 253
Content 253
Process 254
Why Commission a Family Trust Review? 254
Opportunities for Commissioning a Family Trust Review 255
Note 256
Appendix 6 Reflections on the Often Unexpected Consequences of the Creation of a Perpetual Trust 257Notes 273
About the Authors 275
Index 279
HARTLEY GOLDSTONE, JD, MBA, works with institutional and individual trustees, family offices, and beneficiaries in all stages of life to identify and then achieve positive possibilities in the relationship between beneficiary and trustee. A Research Fellow with Wise Counsel Research, Hartley is the co-author of TrustWorthy: New Angles on Trusts from Beneficiaries and Trustees, and a popular speaker about flourishing "trustscapes." JAMES (Jay) E. HUGHES, JR., is the author of the acclaimed classics Family Wealth and Family: The Compact Among Generations, and the co-author of The Cycle of the Gift: Family Wealth and Wisdom and The Voice of the Rising Generation. He has also written numerous articles on family governance and wealth preservation. A Research Fellow with Wise Counsel Research, Jay is a frequent speaker at symposia on the growth of families' human, intellectual, social, spiritual, and financial capital. DR. KEITH WHITAKER is founding president of Wise Counsel Research, a think tank devoted to studying wealth and philanthropy. Keith has many years' experience helping enterprising families communicate around estate planning and charitable giving. His writings have appeared in The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and the Financial Times. Keith is the co-author of The Cycle of the Gift: Family Wealth and Wisdom, The Voice of the Rising Generation: Family Wealth & Wisdom, and Wealth and the Will of God.
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