Meghan Daum is the author of five books and writes a biweekly column about culture and politics for Medium. Her most recent book is The Unspeakable: And Other Subjects of Discussion, which won the 2015 PEN Center USA Award for creative nonfiction. Her other books include the essay collection My Misspent Youth, and she edited the New York Times bestseller Selfish, Shallow, and Self-Absorbed: Sixteen Writers on the Decision Not to Have Kids. From 2005 to 2016, Daum was an opinion columnist for the Los Angeles Times. She has contributed to numerous magazines, including The New Yorker, The Atlantic, The New York Times Magazine, and Vogue. A recipient of a 2015 Guggenheim Fellowship and a 2016 National Endowment for the Arts Fellowship, she is on the adjunct faculty in the MFA Writing Program at Columbia University School of the Arts.
One of The New York Times Book Review's 100 Notable Books
of 2019
One of The New York Post's Best Books of 2019
"Electrifying."
- The New York Times
"... affectingly personal, achingly earnest, and something close to
necessary."
- Vogue.com
"an elegantly-composed treatise against tribalism and cancel
culture that seamlessly weaves in personal anecdotes."
- Elle
"Personal, convincing, unflinching."
- Tablet
"Daum's writing is brave and engaging; she does some hard thinking
about our times and demands that we do too."
- Newsweek
"A book of thoughtful, provocative essays on everything from the
Trump presidency to identity politics to generational differences
and beyond. At a time when nuance of any kind is often dismissed,
Daum offers thoughtful takes on hot-button topics."
- The New York Post
"This book is the eloquent testament of a card-carrying feminist
who abhors the stranglehold that political correctness has placed
on intellectual life in America. As such, it is to be applauded-and
I do."
-Vivian Gornick, author of Fierce Attachments and The
Odd Woman and the City
"The Problem with Everything has the brutal honesty and
rawness that will leave you examining your own thoughts and beliefs
about the culture we are living in today. It forces you to ask
yourself the question: whose side am I really on, and why do I have
to choose one? I love how this book pushes me to think harder and
be smarter."
-Chelsea Handler, author of Life Will Be the Death of Me . .
. and You too!
"For those who are outraged by the current political moment and yet
are feeling weary from the outrage, for the Gen-Xers who got lost
between generations, or really anyone feeling a little more lost
than everyone they follow on Twitter, let Meghan Daum be your
spiritual guide! She'll show you that it's possible to be alive in
this political moment but in your own way."
-Hanna Rosin, host of NPR's Invisibilia podcast
"Meghan Daum's observations will stand in the future as a perfect
encapsulation of how social media has transformed educated people's
sense of what it is to be moral in the 2010s. More to the point,
this book shines a light on us right now, a brighter and more
revealing one than anything on the Twittersphere."
-John McWhorter, author of Words on the Move and The
Language Hoax
"Just when you thought feminist iconoclasm had gone into retreat or
extinction, The Problem With Everything arrives, slicing through
the intellectual murk of outrage culture and edgy online wokeness.
Daum is a virtuoso at rueful insights and self-interrogation,
willing to risk upending things in the knowledge that 'safe spaces'
and safe ideas advance none of us."
-Laura Kipnis, author of Unwanted Advances: Sexual Paranoia
Comes to Campus
"Meghan Daum has a world-class BS detector. In elegant, incisive,
often hilarious prose, she calmly applies it to the confusion and
narcissism threatening so many of our most feverish, social
media-driven debates. From the shifting terms of "fourth-wave"
feminism to the paradoxes of privilege and the myopia of tribalism,
The Problem with Everything probes a liberalism under assault from
all fronts and in danger of falling apart from within. Nothing
escapes Daum's scrutiny-least of all herself."
-Thomas Chatterton Williams, author of Self-Portrait In Black
And White: Unlearning Race
"Showcasing both her sense of humor and her sense of outrage,
Meghan Daum's The Problem with Everything will make you laugh and
it will make you think. In these polarized times, her call for
nuance feels brave, and sorely necessary. Daum strides into that
most challenging, confusing of places - the grey area - and forces
us to confront and unpack its layers."
-A.M. Homes, author of Days of Awe
"Sharp, brazen, and undeniably controversial."
- Kirkus
"Daum, an old-school essayist more in the vein of Joan Didion and
Nora Ephron than xoJane and Jezebel, says she will continue to
tease out the nuances that exist all around us, even as doing so
becomes increasingly... problematic."
- The Stranger
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