Gavin de Becker is a three-time presidential appointee whose pioneering work has changed the way our government evaluates threats to our nation’s highest officials. His firm advises many of the world’s most prominent media figures, corporations, and law enforcement agencies on predicting violence, and it also serves regular citizens who are victims of domestic abuse and stalking. De Becker has advised the prosecution on major cases, including the O.J. Simpson murder trial. He has testified before many legislative bodies and has successfully proposed new laws to help manage violence.
"Gavin de Becker has done it again—this time for kids. Protecting
the Gift provides practical solutions for keeping youngsters
safe....A brilliant lesson in prevention."—Ken Wooden, leading
child advocate, author of Child Lures
"A must for all parents raising children in an increasingly violent
society."—FBI behavioral scientist Robert Ressler
"Everyone in contact with children should read this important book.
It can help save lives."—Publishers Weekly, starred review
"Dynamic, inspiring and practical... and an entertaining and
gripping read. This is a must read for every parent or anyone who
cares for kids."—Ellen Snortland, author of Beauty Bites Beast:
Awakening the Warrior Within Women and Girls
"Gavin de Becker has done it again-this time for kids.
Protecting the Gift provides practical solutions for keeping
youngsters safe....A brilliant lesson in prevention."-Ken Wooden,
leading child advocate, author of Child Lures
"A must for all parents raising children in an increasingly violent
society."-FBI behavioral scientist Robert Ressler
"Everyone in contact with children should read this important book.
It can help save lives."-Publishers Weekly, starred
review
"Dynamic, inspiring and practical... and an entertaining and
gripping read. This is a must read for every parent or anyone who
cares for kids."-Ellen Snortland, author of Beauty Bites Beast:
Awakening the Warrior Within Women and Girls
Dostoyevski said that child abuse is evil because it destroys a childs faith in the goodness of God. In this painstakingly practical yet impassioned guide, de Becker, author of last years bestselling The Gift of Fear, demonstrates that a child who was himself abused can grow up to be a vigilant protector of the gift of childrens innate faith in the goodness of life. Writing with a precision honed from his long experience as a security expert predicting violence in order to protect high-profile clients, and with a depth born of his own childhood understanding of how it feels to be hurt by the adult you love, de Becker describes how we can keep our children safe. Although he devotes separate chapters to the special threats facing children and teens, females and males (the murderous romance of boys and guns is covered), his basic message is encapsulated in 12 steps. Echoing his previous book, the first step involves teaching children to honor their feelingsspecifically, the intuition that makes them fear certain people. Children also need a parents permission to be assertive, to defy adults, to yell and fully resist. Throughout, de Becker stresses a childs need to trust that a parent will be open to listen about any experience, no matter how unpleasant. He opens and concludes with tales of ordinary mothers who overcame their doubts and inhibitions to experience a brilliantly intuitive wild brain as they fought off attackers to protect their children. De Becker offers a guide to fostering this fierce intelligence in our kids, ourselves and our society. Everyone in contact with children should read this important book. It can help save lives. BOMC, QPB and Childrens BOMC featured alternates; first serial to USA Weekend; second serial to Good Housekeeping; author tour. (May)
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