Why Capable People Suffer from the Impostor Syndrome and How to Thrive in Spite of It
VALERIE YOUNG is an internationally known workshop leader and public speaker and the former marketing manager at a Fortune 200 company. Her work has been cited in such publications as Women's Day, Redbook, Fitness, Self, Cosmopolitan, Inc., and the Boston Globe, Chicago Tribune, and Globe and Mail. She lives in Montague, Massachusetts. Visit the au-thor online at www.impostorsyndrome.com.
"Young's extremely perceptive and action-oriented solutions shine;
she urges women to focus on their actual, measurable achievements
without editorializing ("just the facts, ma'am!") and to take their
cue from men and to fake it till they make it. A can't-miss primer
for businesswomen everywhere."
--Publishers Weekly (starred review) "The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women examines a common affliction and offers tools, insight, scientific evidence, and numerous examples that aim to banish the impostor for good. Valerie Young's diligence, passion for the subject, and belief that anyone can overcome feelings of inadequacy, duplicity, and unworthiness rings loudly throughout The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women."
--New York Journal of Books "Self-doubt is common, but when it impedes you from attaining your goals it's time to take action. This book shows you how to move beyond feeling like an imposter so that you can achieve your full personal and professional potential."
--Lois P. Frankel, Ph.D., author of Nice Girls Just Don't Get It and Nice Girls Don't Get the Corner Office
"Valerie Young introduces us to the "Impostor Syndrome," a fascinating pattern of thinking that many successful women feel today. If you, in any way, feel you don't deserve your success, this is the book that will help you embrace the richness of the person you truly are."
--Susan Jeffers, Ph. D., author of Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway(R) and Embracing Uncertainty
"Valerie Young's The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women is going to help a lot of talented women break free of self-doubt. The book is profound and practical, full of insights that will show you who you really are. You'll like what you see."
--Barbara Sher, New York Times bestselling author of I Could Do Anything If I Only Knew What It Was
"A calm, measured book that quells that nagging inner voice that says you're not good enough, smart enough, or prepared enough to succeed. Women who second-guess themselves need to hear Valerie Young's message."
--Susan Pinker, Psychologist, Author of The Sexual Paradox: Men, Women and the Real Gender Gap "The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women may look like an ordinary self-help book, but there's nothing ordinary about it. Valerie Young has given us a power tool to enrich and expand our lives in ways we may never dared to imagine. Although I've been vaguely aware of the impostor syndrome for years, now I not only understand it, but believe this book could inspire a new crusade to stamp out this insidious disorder that has caused so much unhappiness and wasted so much talent. I think The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women is as important as The Feminine Mystique. Quite simply, if you are a woman--or love one--this book belongs in your library."
--Barbara J. Winter Author of Making a Living Without a Job
"Dr. Young is a mapmaker. She inspires us to "go for it" by providing guidelines to make success a choice based on our values rather than on our fear of incompetence. [This book] is a gift to millions who want to replace fear and suffering with excitement and joy in their achievements. I am recommending it to all my clients and students who suffer with impostor feelings."
--Dr. Suzanne Imes, Co-Coiner of the Impostor Phenomenon
"Valerie Young's book, The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women, provides important insights into the Impostor Experience of very competent women. She provides important knowledge that can help women begin to truly appreciate and acclaim their success."
--Pauline Rose Clance, Ph.D., ABPP, Co-Coiner of the Impostor Phenomenon
"This is an important book to read for just about every woman I know, because however competent and accomplished they are, women can still feel they are faking it. Valerie Young guides women with depth and awareness of this impostor syndrome, coaching them with valuable tools on how to let go of these self-limiting beliefs and embrace their own success with authenticity."
--Iris J. Newalu, Director, Smith College Executive Education for Women
"I wish I could have read Dr. Young's book twenty-five years ago when I was convinced that my acceptance into a prestigious college was a mistake; or 18 years ago when, as a new lawyer, I was naively under the impression that I could compete effectively within a department dominated by men simply by waiting to be noticed for my hard work without self-promoting; or even 12 years ago when I felt like an incompetent fraud after being promoted into my dream job. The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women is a critical resource full of practical solutions for the impostor feelings that plague successful women."
--Ellen J. Duffy, VP and Deputy General Counsel, Genworth Financial "Valerie Young will transform the lives of professional women with Secret Thoughts, a book that provides life-changing insight on how to overpower limiting thoughts and behaviors. It was so empowering to realize that I am not unique in feeling like a fraud and that countless successful women like me also experience the Impostor Syndrome."
-- Betty Shanahan, Executive Director & CEO, Society of Women Engineers