When it comes to facing old age, writes Athill, "there are no lessons to be learnt, no discoveries to be made, no solutions to offer." As the acclaimed British memoirist (who wrote about her experiences as a book editor in Stet) pushes past 90, she realizes that "there is not much on record on falling away" and resolves to set down some of her observations. She is bluntly unconcerned with conventional wisdom, unapologetically recounting her extended role as "the Other Woman" in her companion's prior marriage--then explaining how he didn't move in with her until after they'd stopped having sex, which is why it was no big deal for her to invite his next mistress to move in with them to save expenses. She is equally frank in discussing how, as their life turns "sad and boring," she copes with his declining health, just as she cared for her mother in her final years. Firmly resolute that no afterlife awaits her, Athill finds just enough optimism in this world to keep her reflections from slipping into morbidity--she may not offer much comfort, but it's a bracing read. (Jan.) Copyright 2008 Reed Business Information.
'There is a sense throughout Athill's work that you are making a new friend as much as reading a new story ... a delight to read' Observer
Diana Athill was born in 1917. She worked for the BBC during the Second World War and helped Andre Deutsch establish the publishing company that bore his name. Athill's distinguished career as an editor is the subject of her acclaimed memoir Stet, also published by Granta, as are four volumes of memoirs - Instead of a Letter, After a Funeral, Yesterday Morning, Make Believe - and a novel, Don't Look at Me Like That.
Her brilliant book is entirely lacking in the usual regrets,
nostalgia and Hovis-ad
recollections of old-timers. It is a little literary gem, penned by
a marvellous, feisty
old character ... What a treasure
*Daily Mail*
What sets her apart is the flagrancy and wit of her writing ... her
memoirs display a
vivacious appreciation of the life she has lived and what is still
to come
*New Statesman*
The book is a moving and humorous account of old age, unsparing
about its indignities, unflinching from the inevitability that the
end can not be many years away, but full of joy at the way life
keeps on, at the most unexpected moments, renewing itself
*Irish Times*
Part exposé, part treatise on old age, the book is a ruminative
read
*Sunday Times*
Exhilarating and comforting, so much good sense, candour and
liveliness of spirit in such clean, clear prose
*Simon Gray*
[She has] a cold eye for reality and no time for sentimental
lies
*Sunday Times*
A candid look at getting near the inevitable
*Daily Express*
Her brilliant book is entirely lacking in the usual regrets,
nostalgia and Hovis-ad recollections of old-timers. It is a little
literary gem, penned by a marvellous, feisty old character ... What
a treasure * Daily Mail *
What sets her apart is the flagrancy and wit of her writing ... her
memoirs display a vivacious appreciation of the life she has lived
and what is still to come * New Statesman *
The book is a moving and humorous account of old age, unsparing
about its indignities, unflinching from the inevitability that the
end can not be many years away, but full of joy at the way life
keeps on, at the most unexpected moments, renewing itself * Irish
Times *
Part expose, part treatise on old age, the book is a ruminative
read * Sunday Times *
Exhilarating and comforting, so much good sense, candour and
liveliness of spirit in such clean, clear prose -- Simon Gray
[She has] a cold eye for reality and no time for sentimental lies
-- Jenny Diski * Sunday Times *
A candid look at getting near the inevitable -- Fiona Phillps *
Daily Express *
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