David Bedrick, JD, Dipl. PW, is an educator, counselor, and attorney, having taught in organizations including the U.S. Navy, 3M, the American Society of Training and Development, and the Process Work Institute. He lives in Santa Fe, New Mexico. Dr. Arnold Mindell, PhD, is a therapist in private practice and the author of 20 books, including Dreambody, Quantum Mind, and The Shaman s Body."
David Bedrick gets it right. He isn t talking back just to Dr.
Phil but to a whole century of normative psychology, an approach to
mental health that has more to do with socialization than with
well-being. Bedrick adds a crucial missing piece to the equation:
love. Not just ordinary love but love of our uniqueness, diversity,
and struggles a kind of love sorely missing in mainstream
psychology. A modern-day Walt Whitman, Bedrick sings the beauty of
our humanity and exhorts us to do the same, to prize the deepest
levels of our diversity and express the many wonderful, crazy, and
colorful ways there are of being human. Julie Diamond, PhD,
coauthor, A Path Made by Walking"
A breath of fresh air to those who have been hurt and put down by the righteous morality and shame of popular psychology. Bedrick, in daring to pull back the veil of the status quo, reveals an approach that invites self-discovery, finds meaning and purpose in problems, and values the social challenges of our times. Anyone who longs for the freedom of their own individual path of heart will be uplifted by this book. Dawn Menken, PhD, author, Speak Out! Talking about Love, Sex and Eternity"
At last someone is taking on Dr. Phil with good sense and great humor. Life isn t a sixty-minute show where people just come in for the laying on of hands. Life is about working it all out with family, community, and love. Good for Mr. Bedrick to decide to pull off the gloves and have an emotional slugfest with an over-the-high-school bully. Talking Back to Dr. Phil is a must read. But not at dinnertime . . . you ll be laughing too hard to eat. Nikki Giovanni, author, Love Poems"
David Bedrick contrasts mainstream psychology with a new approach based on love and radical belief. Mainstream psychology tells us we are sick, bad, or wrong. But for Bedrick our fatigues, aches, pains, anxieties, low moods, and even the difficulties we encounter in our jobs and relationships are all growing opportunities without which we would not develop more awareness. I agree with Bedrick that our sickness deserves our love because it contains the medicine toward our wholeness and well-being. Pierre Morin, MD, PhD, coauthor, Inside Coma"
David Bedrick takes on Dr. Phil in an intelligent, sensitive way that readers will find enlightening and validating. He uses Dr. Phil as a foil to give expression to a deeper, more comprehensive understanding of hot issues like race, gender, diet, sex, and power relationships. Here is the anti Dr. Phil at last, someone who can stand up knowledgeably to Dr. Phil s suave bullying. Robert W. Fuller, PhD, author, Somebodies and Nobodies"
David Bedrick understands that real change or transformation requires challenging accepted dogma and then approaching problems with compassion and curiosity. A great advocate for stopping the madness of body hatred and dieting. Jane R. Hirschmann and Carol H. Munter, authors, Overcoming Overeating"
For many women, it is revolutionary to realize that what will silence the accusatory inner body-image voice isn t losing weight but rather listening to the body s wisdom. It could definitely be said that the essays on diet and body image in this book are a work of spirit through and through. Andrea Hollingsworth, PhD, assistant professor of Christian thought, Berry College"
This groundbreaking book demystifies mainstream psychology by calling out Dr. Phil, showing not only the limitations of his approach, which seeks to restore and maintain normal behavior, but how it perpetuates a mode of psychologizing that reinforces the very pathology it purports to heal. David Bedrick reveals symptoms as allies assisting in growth and insight rather than as signs of sickness or deviations from a norm. And rather than focus only on individuals, he demonstrates how society fosters disturbances that, when processed, contribute to transforming not only the individuals but their relationships, groups, and potentially society itself. As such, Bedrick offers new directions for addressing some of the most perplexing issues of our time, from lying and pornography to addiction and racism. Herbert D. Long, ThD, Dipl. PW, former dean and Francis Greenwood Peabody lecturer, Harvard University"