Preface
Acknowledgments
Dedications
Chapter 1: The Most Frequent Procedure
Chapter 2: Visit Time and Clock Time
Chapter 3: What We Want as Patients: Lessons from Communication
Science
Chapter 4: The Doctor as a Professional - in Our Eyes
Chapter 5: Measuring How Good Our Doctors Are
Chapter 6: Telling Our Story: Taking the Time to Express Our Health
Concerns to Ourselves and Others
Chapter 7: Make The Most of the Visit Through Mindfulness
Chapter 8: How To Communicate Even While Intimidated, Limited,
Uncomfortable, or Under-Educated
Chapter 9: What We’re Talking About: Negotiating The Agenda With
the Doctor
Chapter 10: Acknowledge - and Use - Emotion and Motivation
Chapter 11: How To Talk to the Doctor
About What Makes You Nervous, Embarrassed, or Grossed Out
Chapter 12: Making Healthy Communities with Healthy
Communication
Chapter 13: Learning How to Want Less: Creating a Resource-Sparing
Medical Culture Together with Our Doctors
Chapter 14: Transforming Our Health Care System Through
Communication and Collaboration
Bibliography
Zackary Berger, MD, is a primary care doctor and internist as well as an epidemiologist. He is an assistant professor at the Johns Hopkins School of Medicine, where he maintains an active practice in adult medicine and teaches with residents and medical students. His research on doctor-patient communication, bioethics, and clinical epidemiology has been published in the Annals of Internal Medicine and the Journal of General Internal Medicine, as well as in numerous venues for the general public.
What is the most commonly performed procedure done by a doctor? The
answer is surprisingly simple: interviewing patients. The medical
interview has four major purposes: building rapport, collecting
information, educating, and proposing possible treatments. Berger,
an internal-medicine specialist at the Johns Hopkins Hospital,
dissects the dynamics and studies the flow of doctor-patient
encounters. He offers suggestions for effectively communicating
with your doctor (even when you are nervous, embarrassed, and
intimidated). Some of the most frequent emotions surfacing during a
doctor’s visit are fear, anger, sadness, and frustration. Yet good
physicians can help patients plot a course through difficult times
by expressing empathy and exercising “emotional nimbleness.” Berger
writes, “Healing depends on sensitive emotional navigation as much
as objective truth.” Every visit to the doctor’s office is an
opportunity for a new beginning and an important dialogue about
remaining healthy or feeling better. Patients should feel
comfortable about expressing their concerns, and physicians need to
listen carefully. Berger’s book lays a strong foundation.
*Booklist*
Dr. Berger provides practical, effective advice for how to better
communicate with your doctor. By following this book's advice,
patients can more effectively communicate, better understand what
they should do, and ultimately be more likely to get and stay
well.
*Peter Pronovost, MD, PhD, Director of the Armstrong Institute for
Patient Safety and Quality, Johns Hopkins Medicine ; author of Safe
Patients, Smart Hospitals: How One Doctor's Checklist Can Help Us
Change Health Care from the Inside Out*
I have read a great many books written by patients that focus on
how to survive a hospital stay or contain guidance to help the
reader get the most out of their doctor’s appointment. I have also
read a great deal of such books written by doctors. These tomes are
often written in an earnest manner but can be hard for the layman
to follow. I was so excited when I heard Zackary Berger would be
writing this book, Talking to Your Doctor. I was familiar with his
lyrical writing style from articles and blogs. I am pleased to see
his talent on full display in this long form narrative. “Talking to
Your Doctor” is humorous and insightful. I got a real kick out of
his decision to focus on embarrassing questions in Chapter 11. Not
many authors have the subtle wit to make such comparisons. Please
read this lovely conversation that is wrapped within the pages of a
book. You will not regret it.
*Regina Holliday, Patient Rights Artist and Activist, The Walking
Gallery*
There are many reasons that poorer people are sicker people, but
one that's often overlooked is miscommunication between doctors and
their poorest, most marginalized patients. While it's usually the
case that doctors are from Mars and patients from Venus, this is
especially the case when there are gaps in language, culture,
education and class. In Talking to Your Doctor, Zackary Berger
shows us how to turn those all-too-brief and awkward exchanges into
a foundation for getting better.
*Tina Rosenberg, author of Children of Cain: Violence and the
Violent in Latin America*
In Talking to Your Doctor, Zackary Berger provides an invaluable
lesson to patients—regardless of being in a chronic disease state
or suffering a single bout of illness, patients must take
responsibility for clearly communicating their symptoms and desired
outcomes of care to their doctors. Clinical findings cannot do what
the patient voice can do in defining what sickness means to the
individual patient. With Berger’s guidance, patients can empower
themselves to better explain their concerns and work with their
doctors to achieve meaningful solutions. Berger also encourages his
fellow physicians to engage in redefining the doctor-patient
relationship to be one of mutual respect and open dialogue so that
both doctor and patient find greater satisfaction in their clinical
interactions.
*Sarah E. Kucharski, Patient Advocate, Health Blogger
(AfternoonNapper), CEO/Chairman and Founder of FMD Chat*
Dr. Berger rigorously reviews the ins and outs of doctor-patient
communication to find what you need to do to get the best
healthcare: better conversations with your doctor.
*Victor Montori, MD, MSc, professor of Medicine, Mayo Clinic*
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