Sherman Alexie is one of the most acclaimed and bestselling novelists in America. The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian, which won the National Book Award for Young People's Literature, was a #1 New York Times bestseller and has more than two million copies in print.
Along with the National Book Award, the novel was a 2008 Horn Book Award Winner for Excellence in Children's Literature, a Booksense Book of the Year Children's Literature Honor Book, a Los Angeles Times Book Prize Finalist, and one of the New York Times Notable Children's Books of 2007. Alexie has also written eleven books of poetry, three story collections, and three novels for adults: Reservation Blues, Indian Killer, and Flight.
"You Don't Have to Say You Love Me is a marvel of emotional
transparency."
--Beth Kephart, The Chicago Tribune
"'How does one deliver an honest eulogy?' Alexie asks. And 'how
does one commemorate/ the ordinary?' The answer is to remember,
confess, pray, rant, and ask more questions. Alexie does all these
and more in this powerful, poignant memoir of his mother, a woman
so complex she's an entire tribe of contradictions. Did she love
him? Did he love her? He answers yes, but worries the questions
through stories by turns angry, funny, and raw, and through a
dazzling range of poems that include everything from ballads to
rhymed couplets to a tour de force sequence of 52 haiku, each as
perfect as the squares in the quilts his mother sewed to support
the family. While his father steadily drank himself to death,
Alexie's mother was a recovering alcoholic who kept her family
alive, if often hungry, in an unfinished HUD house on the Spokane
Indian Reservation. She was honored by her tribe for her strength
and generosity, yet she was often cruel to her children. With this
jarring inconsistency at the heart of his brave, compassionate,
book, Alexie traces a lineage of violence so powerful it causes
victims to become perpetrators."--Laurie Greer, Politics & Prose
(Washington, D.C.)
"[A] poignant, conflicted, raucous memoir of a Native American
family...a fine homage to the vexed process of growing up that
vividly conveys how family roots continue to bind even after they
seem to have been severed."--Publishers Weekly
"A master class in memoir."--Sarah Murdoch, Toronto Star
"Alexie is a consummate, unnerving and funny storyteller...pouring
himself into every molten word. Courageous, anguished, grateful,
and hilarious, this is an enlightening and resounding eulogy and
self-portrait...all will be reaching for this confiding and
concussive memoir."
--Booklist (Starred Review)
"Alexie is so aware of his own fallible memory and his own
imperfections that this one won't make you bristle...It's readable,
unpretentious, funny and deeply compassionate." --Erin Kodicek,
Amazon's Omnivoracious Blog
"Alexie's writing is raw, funny, smart and unapologetic. His use of
metaphor expertly crafts a visual to accompany his stories that
leave them unforgettable."
--Catherine Rubino, Book Reporter
"Blends poetry and prose, and varies widely in tone as he explores
old memories and new grief."--Entertainment Weekly, Summer's 20
Must Read Books
"Everything you love about Alexie's writing is here: he still
manages to find honest human comedy in the darkness of America's
genocidal past, and our deeply racist present" and also raves "His
personality is large and, as he survives each passing trial, it's
only getting larger; from his adoring audience's vantage point,
Alexie is now a giant." --Paul Constant, The Seattle Review of
Books
"Evident throughout are humor and rage, respect and loving
irreverence."
--Oprah Magazine
"Full of compassion and wonder, pain and beauty and is a searing
testament to the ways in which our parents and our pasts fully make
us who we are as adults."
--Kristin Iversen, Nylon
"He specifically focuses on his late mother, showing the many sides
of her multifaceted character through dozens of poignant poems and
essays. Their relationship is as complicated as Alexie's stories
are enthralling."--Stephanie Topacio Long, Bustle, 14 Best
Nonfiction Books Coming Out in June 2017
"He's compulsively readable, a literary writer with the guts of a
stand-up comedian."
--Jim Higgins, Milwaukee Journal Sentinel
"Honest, wrenching, and incredibly moving....Highly recommended for
all readers. Alexie's portrayals of family relationships, identity,
and grief have the universality of great literature."--Library
Journal (Starred Review)
"I am mesmerized by this book that is painful as they come yet has
me hooked. [...] I cannot put it down as his raw honesty and quirky
style has gripped me in some kind of way that is hard to describe.
[W]hen I do things like drive to work or make dinner I keep
thinking about it..."--Sheryl Cotleur, Copperfield's Books
(Sebastopol, CA)
"If candor is Alexie's superpower, accuracy might be his
nemesis.... Throughout, Alexie is courageous and unflinching,
delivering a worthy and honest eulogy by showing us his mother and
himself in full, everything spectacular and everything
scarred."--Michael Kleber-Diggs, The Minneapolis Star Tribune
"Resonant and occasionally gut-wrenching."
--Entertainment Weekly
"Sardonic, raw and moving...powerful."
--Jane Ciabattari, BBC.com
"Sherman Alexie makes poetry out of the darkest parts of his (and
his mother's) life... It's all a mighty attempt to understand who
his mother was, who she is to him, and how to make peace with
her."--Jaime Green, Google Play, Summer Reading
"The overwhelming takeaway from Mr. Alexie's memoir is triumph,
that of one writer's ability to overcome hardscrabble roots,
medical bad luck and generations of systemic racism--all through an
uncommon command of language and metaphor."
--James Yeh, New York Times
"There's straight personal history here, as well as fable, poetry,
and raw and mordant accounts of life....Unexpected revelations are
a constant throughout this memoir"--Maureen Corrigan, NPR's "Fresh
Air", 6 Books That Will Carry You Away
"These pages are scored by resentment, hurt, guilt, anger, fear,
but they are also full of gratitude, admiration, and
tenderness."
--Priscilla Gilman, The Boston Globe
"This is an essay, a memoir, a history, a cry from the heart, a
challenge to other Indians and a baring of his soul."
--Michael Giltz, Huffington Post
"To say that I was moved by Sherman Alexie's memoir is a terrible
understatement; in fact, there is a pulse in this book that has
worked its way into my being and irrevocably changed how I think
about my own life. Alexie's kaleidoscopic approach to storytelling
is so representative of the feeling of being human, with childhood
memory, relationships, love, trauma, and art all moving in and out
of focus at once. At the center of YOU DON'T HAVE TO SAY YOU LOVE
ME is a deep grieving, for Alexie's mother, for the ways in which
parental love is imperfect, for unthinkable personal and cultural
traumas. But Alexie's brilliance is in holding multiple truths,
that one can experience simultaneously both trauma and hope, grief
and humor, violence and love. I, like Alexie, "tend to fall in love
with the unnamable," that nebulous complexity at the heart of the
human experience that can only be understood by holding on to all
of the pieces of your life at once, a practice both beautiful and
terrifying. Alexie achieves this exquisitely, and YOU DON'T HAVE TO
SAY YOU LOVE ME is an unforgettable work.--Kelsey O'Rourke,
Literati Bookstore (Ann Arbor, MI)
"Tough material, shot through with lyricism, insight and
wit."--Mary Ann Gwinn, The Seattle Times
"With brazen honesty and humor throughout, Alexie writes about the
many facets of his mother and her addiction's effect on his family
and childhood."
--Jarry Lee, BuzzFeed, "22 Exciting New Books You Need to Read This
Summer"
"Written in his familiar breezy, conversational, and aphoristic
style, the book makes even the darkest personal experiences
uplifting and bearable with the author's wit, sarcasm, and
humor...a powerful, brutally honest memoir about a mother and the
son who loved her."
--Kirkus Reviews
On Reservation Blues:
"His talent is immense and genuine.... Sherman Alexie is one of the
best writers we have."
- The Nation "Hilarious but poignant...dead-on accurate with regard
to modern Indian life."
--Publisher's Weekly On Indian Killer:
"A haunting, challenging articulation of the plight and the pride
of contemporary Native Americans."
- Kirkus Reviews, starred review "Characters in Mr. Alexie's work
are not the usual kind of Indians...They are not tragic victims or
noble savages...they listen to Jimi Hendrix and Hank Williams; they
dream of being basketball stars...And unlike most Indians in
fiction, they are sometimes funny."
--The New York Times On The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time
Indian: "A Native American equivalent of Angela's Ashes."
--- (starred review), Publishers Weekly "Sure to resonate and lift
spirits of all ages for years to come."
--USA Today
An Amazon editors' Top 20 books of the yearA Washington Post Best
Book of the yearAn LA Times Best Book of of the yearAn NPR Best
Book of the Year
Also named a Best Book Of the Year by Buzzfeed, The Oregonian,
Library Journal, The Milwaukee Sentinel Journal, Bookpage and The
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